Is My Man Cheating?

One of my first articles, “Is My Man Cheating” just went live today at EzineArticles.com.  You can read the whole thing by clicking on the title, but here’s a brief recap of the content:

Basically, I outlined three different indicators that a guy might be fooling around.  They are:

Big Changes.  These can totally be a sign of cheating.  If a guy starts behaving in a way that’s radically different than the norm, it should make you wonder.  The trick here is that the change can be in either direction.  For instance, a guy might become more lovey-dovey because he feels guilty or wants to throw you off his trail.  Or, he might become more distance because his mind is somewhere else and his attentions divided.

Top Secret.  If a guy is usually pretty open about what he’s doing, where and when he’s doing it, etc. and then starts to keep secrets or is overly concerned with privacy, it can be a sign that he’s fooling around.  If you’re suddenly accused of “prying”, that’s a warning sign.

Smell.  Everyone has a sent.  If you notice it changing, you should consider it a warning sign.  He might be splashing on a new cologne because “she” loves it.  Or he might be maxing out on his own aftershave in hopes of covering her smell.  You get the idea.

Anyway, those are three signs that might help you answer the question, “Is my man cheating?”

Signs of a Cheating Wife

I just finished writing and submitting an article entitled “Signs of a Cheating Wife” at another website. Once it’s published, I’ll provide a link to it here. In the meantime, here’s a synopsis:

There are many different signs of a cheating wife. You could fill a phone book with the different potential shreds of evidence that can prove she’s fooling around. There are some indicators, however, that are more persuasive than others. In the article I wrote, I isolated three of them.

First, I mentioned that you should probably be worried if your wife starts giving you gifts when she usually doesn’t behave that way. She might be trying to keep you off of her trail or she might just be trying to reduce her guilt level. Either way, a sudden streak of generosity may be a sign of cheating.

Second, I noted that we should use our sense of smell to our advantage. Women have a scent and men recognize the way their wives smell. If they suddenly start coming home smelling differently, it should raise a warning flag. Whether she smells a little like a cologne you don’t wear or like she’s trying drown herself in her own perfume to cover up something, it’s a cause for alarm.

Finally, I observed that changes in computer behavior can be major signs of a cheating wife. Basically, the computer is one of the most popular ways for cheaters to communicate. If she’s having an affair, she’s probably making contact online. If your wife goes from being an occasional user to where she’s glued to the chair in front of the PC, you might want to really look at what’s happening.

Well, I think the recap here might actually be as long as the article I just wrote! Anyway, those are three different signs that a wife could be cheating and I think all concerned husbands should keep them in mind.